Loving Well: Going Beyond Ourselves

Paul writes to the Philippians: "And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight (Philippians 1:9-11)"

Yes!  As we get wiser and more knowledgeable may it not result in bigger heads and greater abilities to argue, but in a deeper expression of love for others. 

What is the essense of love?  Can we grow in this important aspect of life?